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Having photographed dozens of Indian weddings, I can say with certainty that no moment is as emotional as the vidaai. This farewell ceremony, marking the bride’s departure from her parental home, is a mix of bittersweet emotions—tears of sadness and joy, laughter through misty eyes, and an overwhelming sense of love and transition. Witnessing these moments through my lens, I’ve come to appreciate the depth of tradition and the raw human emotion that makes the vidaai so powerful.
The word vidaai means “farewell” in Hindi, and it truly lives up to its name. As I stand there, camera in hand, I see the bride taking her last steps in the home where she grew up, where she was cherished, and where she dreamed of this very day. Unlike the exuberant dance-filled rituals of the wedding, the vidaai is a moment of deep reflection and poignant goodbyes. Families hold onto their daughters just a little longer, trying to memorize the feeling of having them close before they step into their new life.
Through my years of capturing these moments, I’ve learned that vidaai is not just a ceremony—it is history repeating itself, a tradition carried forward through generations. In many Indian cultures, the bride is seen as Lakshmi, the goddess of prosperity, and her departure signifies blessings for her family while bringing good fortune to her new home. While centuries ago, this transition meant a permanent shift in a woman’s life, today it comes with the reassurance that she will always be connected to her roots. The emotions, however, remain just as profound.
I’ve watched as fathers fight back tears, mothers whisper final words of advice, and siblings exchange long embraces. The most touching moment for me is when the bride, in a final gesture of gratitude, tosses rice or coins over her shoulder before leaving. This simple yet powerful act symbolizes her wish for her parents’ home to always remain prosperous, even as she moves on. It’s in these quiet, deeply personal gestures that the true essence of vidaai shines through.
What I love most about being a photographer is the privilege of being close to these deeply intimate emotions. It’s a gift to be trusted to capture moments so personal, so raw, and so fleeting. As you can see I love to be up close and and almost on top of the moments taking place, as I feel the images are much more impactful this way. My goal is to capture the images in a way that gives you the feeling you were there experiencing the moments and emotions yourself.
I also appreciate delivering the images in black and white as I believe that, although Indian weddings are known for their bright and vibrant colors, in this particular case I think the colors can be a distraction to the storytelling impact of the images.
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Brian photographs weddings and events in the greater San Francisco Bay Area, the Monterey and Carmel Peninsula, Wine Country including Sonoma County and the Napa Valley, the East Bay, San Jose, Sacramento, Lake Tahoe and wedding destinations worldwide.