Why Engagement Photos Are So Valuable Before the Wedding | From a Photographer’s Perspective

As a wedding photographer, I truly believe that engagement sessions are one of the most important steps a couple can take in preparing for their big day. These sessions are about so much more than just beautiful photos—they help build confidence, create connection, and set the stage for a smooth and enjoyable wedding photography experience. Here’s why include them in most of my collections, and why I always encourage my couples to schedule an engagement shoot before their wedding.

1. We Get to Know Each Other Personally

I’ll be with you throughout your wedding day, capturing intimate and emotional moments. An engagement session allows us to connect on a personal level before the wedding. I get to learn about your personalities, your love story, and what makes you feel most comfortable. In turn, you get to know me, my approach, and my shooting style, making the entire process feel more natural and relaxed.

2. You Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera

Most couples I work with aren’t professional models, and that’s totally okay! Engagement sessions are a great opportunity to practice posing in a stress-free setting. I guide you through natural movements, show you how to position your hands, and help you find poses that flatter you both. By the time your wedding arrives, you’ll already feel confident and at ease in front of the camera.

3. You Learn What to Expect on Your Wedding Day

Think of your engagement session as a trial run for your wedding photos. You’ll experience how I direct and pose you, how I work with lighting, and how I capture authentic moments. This means that on your wedding day, you’ll know exactly what to expect, making everything run smoothly and efficiently.

4. We Create Stunning, Personal Keepsakes

Beyond preparing for the wedding, engagement photos give you beautiful, professional images that capture this special time in your lives. Many couples use them for save-the-dates, wedding websites, guest books, or even as décor at their wedding. Plus, they serve as timeless reminders of your love story before the big day.

5. You Discover Your Best Angles and Preferences

Seeing your engagement photos before the wedding gives you valuable insight into what you love about your pictures. Maybe you prefer a certain side, a specific type of lighting, or a more candid approach over posed shots. This feedback helps me fine-tune my approach on your wedding day to ensure your portraits truly reflect your best selves.

6. You Gain Confidence in Your Photographer

Trust is key in wedding photography. Your engagement session allows you to see how I work, how I capture emotions, and how I make sure every detail looks perfect. By the wedding day, you’ll feel completely comfortable putting your trust in me, knowing that I’ll capture your love story beautifully and authentically.

7. We Have Fun and Celebrate Your Love

More than anything, engagement sessions are just a fun and relaxed way to celebrate your relationship. Whether we shoot in a meaningful location, incorporate activities you love, or simply take a walk together, it’s a chance to step away from wedding planning stress and focus on each other.

Final Thoughts

Engagement sessions aren’t just another task on your wedding checklist—they’re a valuable experience that enhances your wedding photography journey. They help us connect, prepare, and create beautiful memories before the big day. If you’re considering skipping your engagement session, I encourage you to reconsider—it’s an investment that leads to more natural, relaxed, and stunning wedding photos.